Host/Hostess Gifts - Two Ways

FOR THE HOST/HOSTESS I think it is always appropriate to bring a host/hostess gift. The cruelty joke is when you expect the host or hostess to use that gift the day you bring it. Here is what I mean - you bring some cute napkins or candle as a thank you and you say something like "Do you want me to open those for you?" Do not presume that what you bought will be used for this party. It throws the host or hostess off their game plan. What you brought may not go with the rest of event's decor, food, or theme. Short answer - get something but don't expect it to be used immediately. A great gift I like to give is cocktail markers by Le Marqueur - (two for just $5.99). They wipe off glasses with cooking oil and allow everyone to keep track of their wine! And if they get used the night of the party - great - but if not, no problem! FROM THE HOST/HOSTESS I have been to a few parties where the host or hostess gives a gift at the end of the night. You know you used to do this as a child where all the kids at the birthday party would take home a goodie bag after the party? We have lost that as adults and I must admit I have not always added this to my party planning list. But how thoughtful it is to send your guests home with a parting gift? Something like a wine stopper or small bag of chocolates? I like Favor Warehouse . They have great products you can personalize and have ready for every party! I found their pricing is competitive and they have a great selection to fit any theme. A parting gift from the host/hostess is a great way to leave your guests feeling special on their way home and remembering your kindess when they use the favor! To presents for all! Marty Thompson