Looking People in the Eye

Simply, etiquette means treating others the same way you want to be treated. But learning etiquette rules can mean much more than this. Proper etiquette helps us identify with important emotions like empathy, sympathy, and compassion. When we are polite to others, we acknowledge that they are important and have the same feelings as we do. With this in mind, we will discuss the reasons why certain conventions of etiquette really help us identify with these emotions. Looking People In The Eye Eyes are known as the window to the soul. Emotions are often easy to read if you can see someone's eyes. When someone speaks to you it is a matter of respect to answer and look at her in the eye. If you shift your gaze to the ground or the side, you give the impression you are deceptive or can't be trusted. While this perception may not be fair, you can practice looking people in the eye. When you go to the grocery store and are checking out with a clerk, look him in the eye when you give your credit card or cash. Consciously look friends in the eye when you are speaking with them. You can learn this habit and it will make you seem more sincere when you meet new people.