Owning It - Part 1

Whether you are braving a party solo or chasing your dream job, attitude is half the battle. Thinking you have what it takes to get it done will go a long way to that actually happening. Here are some tips to handling those next stressful situations you face. 1 - Socializing solo - all dressed up and no one you know at the party. Do not stress about it. Shine! Walk up to a group of guest who look like they are having a good time and introduce yourself. Say you look like you were having a such a good time I would love to join you. People are generally nice. You will not get turned away. Ask how people know the host or hostess. That gives good starter to conversation and helps give you context to keep the conversation going. Also being up to date on current events is a great way to ensure no lulls through the night. Everyone likes to talk about their own city and what happening there. Keep it light but interesting with local sports or school activities or events coming to town. You will find you can have a great time not having known a soul at the start. 2 - Work Presentation - You planned for the power point deck edits and have an idea about what you are going to say but you went out last night and did not do all the final planning you wanted to. How do you come off professional and polished? Nervous people tend to talk too long and usually do not make sense. Audiences only retain so much so rambling has a negative effect. Plan the pithy parts that you need and keep it under your allotted time. Leave time for question and answer. Also allow for audience participation. The most important thing is to convey comfort not fear - smile, laugh, breathe - you will own the room.