Talk Starters

Many times we don't know how to break into conversations at events or get to know new co-workers. There is always the awkward first impressions and silent pauses that make us uncomfortable. Further, sometimes we are a the "new guy" and we want to make sure we are perceived as personable. One of the easiest ways to get to know someone is to start with a sincere compliment. If you start with that, you are sure to make a positive first impression. Importantly, if you listen to responses to compliments you can keep the conversation going. For example: Compliment: That pie you made is great. Answer: Thank you. It was my grandmother's recipe. Response: Oh fantastic. Did she teach you to cook? Answer...) Inevitably, the conversation goes on. If you are the new person to a workplace, you can bring a prop that gets people talking. Maybe you wear a quirky scarf or handbag. You come to the event with something that will pique interest and make conversations easier for you all night.